Guildelines for using Personals

Personals are for seeking connections with others written in beautiful prose.

Last updated: Feb 24, 2025

What is Allowed?

✔️ Seeking dates, hookups, romance, friendships, missed connections, shared interests (e.g., poetry admirers), or finding like-minded people to talk to. These are just examples—not a definitive list.

What is Not Allowed?

❌ Overly explicit sexual content. Tasteful smut and general "horny posts" are welcome, but excessively graphic descriptions are not.

❌ Posts that fetishize specific identities or target communities you are not part of. It’s okay to seek connections within your own community (e.g., T4T, BIPOC4BIPOC). However, posts seeking specific identities from communities you don’t belong to (e.g., a non-BIPOC person seeking only BIPOC people) are not allowed. This helps maintain a safe and respectful space for everyone. Be mindful of how your words might make others feel unwelcome or objectified.

❌ Seeking specific genitals. Preferences are valid, but personals should focus on the activities you’re interested in rather than body parts. Any language that fetishizes trans bodies or includes TERF rhetoric is not allowed—regardless of who is posting it.

❌ Hate speech, extreme rhetoric, spam, or harmful content. This includes posts promoting violence, suicide, misogyny, doxxing, or misinformation.

❌ ASCII art with no clear purpose. If it’s not part of seeking a connection, it doesn’t belong here.

❌ Links are not allowed. Links don’t work in personals and never will. Describe what you’re looking for using prose rather than directing people elsewhere.

❌ Controversial opinions posted just to provoke. If you’re using anonymity to post something you know will stir up drama, it doesn’t belong here.

Our Right to Remove Content

We reserve the right to remove any post at our discretion, especially if it violates these guidelines or our broader community policies. If you're unsure whether something belongs here, it's best to reconsider before posting.