Freddie

A curated community for sapphic, trans & gender-diverse people.

Built for connection, not engagement

Every feature on Freddie is designed to help you find meaningful connections, not to keep you scrolling. Here's what makes us different.

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Anonymous Personals

Post anonymously, reveal yourself only when you reply, and chat through encrypted messages. No swiping, no algorithms. Just real words from real people.

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Community Spaces

Find your corner of the community. Interest-based groups, identity-affirming spaces, and local connections.

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Events & Gatherings

Virtual and IRL events with people who get it. Movie nights, meetups, and member-organized gatherings inside the app.

Coming Soon

The Freddie Zine

Every quarter, we publish a print zine featuring the best personals, original art, and essays from the Freddie community. Submit your work when submissions open. Copies available after publication.

Waiting, Gently

I’m drawn to the slow kind of connection. The kind built on presence, shared quiet, and moments that linger longer than expected. Looking for someone who believes romance lives in patience, intention, and letting things unfold naturally.

Anonymous·Oakland·1h ago
Your safety matters

Built for safety, not just growth

We carefully review every membership application. Active moderation keeps the space healthy. We're independently run. Your data stays yours.

Application required
Active moderation
Self-funded
Privacy-first
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